Reincarnation or Spiritual Counterfeit?


One of the most difficult beliefs for me to relinquish when leaving Tibetan Buddhism was reincarnation.

Unlike many other Buddhist teachings that gradually fell away as I examined them through a lived Christian lens, reincarnation presented a unique challenge. It seemed to be supported not only by doctrine but also by personal testimony, stories of remembered past lives, and the long tradition of reincarnated lamas recognized within Tibetan Buddhism. For years, I had accepted it as an unquestioned fact about reality.

Yet as I moved toward Christianity, I encountered a problem that could not be ignored. Christianity and the doctrine of reincarnation cannot both be true.

The Christian understanding of the human person is fundamentally incompatible with the Buddhist doctrine of repeated rebirth. Christianity teaches that each human being is uniquely created by God, lives one earthly life, dies, and then faces judgment. Reincarnation teaches an ongoing cycle of repeated births and deaths extending across countless lifetimes. The two views are mutually exclusive.

As I began to heal through Christianity, I became convinced that the faith was true. If Christianity is true, then reincarnation cannot be. But what, then, should I make of all the evidence that seemed to support it? This question stayed with me for years.

Early in my conversion, a Catholic priest suggested a possible answer. More recently, I heard a similar explanation discussed during an online group conversation. The idea was simple, yet it provided a framework that resolved many of the difficulties I had struggled with.

What if the memories are real, but they do not belong to the person experiencing them?

From a Christian perspective, demonic spirits are intelligent beings whose existence extends far beyond the lifespan of any individual human being. They observe human lives, accumulate knowledge, and seek to deceive. If such entities can influence human consciousness, as the Catholic Church teaches and exorcists regularly attest, then apparent memories of previous lives need not originate from a former incarnation. They may instead originate from the spirit influencing or possessing the person.

In that framework, what people interpret as reincarnation is not the return of a deceased human soul to earthly life. Rather, it is a demonic spirit carrying memories, experiences, and knowledge accumulated through previous individuals it has influenced or possessed over time. The continuity exists within the demonic spirit itself. The same entity carries memories from one person to another, presenting them as evidence of reincarnation. The recipient naturally concludes that he has lived before because he is experiencing memories that seem personal and immediate. In reality, the memories originate from another source.

This possibility becomes particularly interesting when examining traditions that identify certain individuals as the reincarnations of previous spiritual masters. In Tibetan Buddhism, reincarnated lamas are often recognized through a combination of signs, including unusual knowledge, recognition of objects belonging to a deceased teacher, personality traits, reported memories of a previous life, and other indications of continuity with an earlier lama. The standard explanation is that the lama’s consciousness has returned in a new body. From the perspective I am describing, however, the phenomenon could be understood differently. What appears to be continuity between human souls may instead reflect the activity of the same spiritual entity manifesting through successive individuals.

Viewed in this light, reincarnation becomes a profound deception. The individual concludes that he has lived many lives when he is actually encountering memories that belong to a spiritual entity rather than to himself.

Looking back, stories about the past lives of lineage masters were among the most persuasive arguments for adopting the beliefs of Tibetan Buddhism. They convinced me that the religion possessed evidence that Christianity could not explain.

This interpretation also sheds light on why reincarnation narratives so often reinforce particular spiritual systems. The memories do not merely provide information about a supposed former life. They frequently validate larger theological claims about karma, lineage, enlightenment, and the authority of certain teachers and traditions. They make it easier to dismiss the Christian account of creation, human nature, and salvation. The experience of past lives itself becomes a powerful mechanism for persuading individuals that the worldview surrounding it must be true.

From a Christian perspective, this possibility should not be dismissed lightly. Scripture repeatedly warns that spiritual deception is real. The serpent’s temptation in Eden was not an invitation to obvious evil. It was an invitation to hidden knowledge. The promise was that human beings could gain wisdom through an alternative source rather than trusting the revelation God had already provided.

The Church has not formally taught this specific explanation for apparent past-life memories, and I therefore present it as theological speculation rather than established doctrine. Nevertheless, it remains the most coherent explanation I have encountered, one that preserves both the Christian rejection of reincarnation and the reality of spiritual deception.

The insight that finally resolved this issue for me was remarkably simple: the memories may be real, but they do not belong to the person experiencing them. If that is true, then some of the strongest evidence offered for reincarnation may not point to previous human lives at all. Instead, it may reveal the activity of deceptive spiritual entities that exploit the appearance of past lives in order to draw human beings away from the truth revealed in Jesus Christ.

Forgiveness in Christianity vs Wrath in Tantric Tibetan Buddhism


In Tantric Tibetan Buddhism, forgiveness is not traditionally emphasized as it is in Christianity. Tibetan Buddhism places greater emphasis on karma, the universal law of cause and effect. According to this view, actions inherently produce outcomes, and there is little scope for simply “forgiving” or releasing someone from the karmic consequences of their deeds. Instead, purification practices are prescribed to cleanse one’s negative karma. If they are not done effectively, retribution is a given.

Ken McLeod, a prominent Western teacher and translator of Tibetan Buddhism, highlights this point clearly in an article titled, “Forgiveness is not Buddhist.” He writes, “In Tibetan Buddhism, forgiveness isn’t really addressed in the same way as it is in Christianity. Instead, there’s an emphasis on purification and insight into the nature of mind and action.” [1]

Practitioners engage in rituals and meditation practices, such as Vajrasattva purification practices, visualizing negative karma being cleansed. However, these rituals differ fundamentally from the Christian idea of interpersonal forgiveness. They are personal acts of purification rather than relational acts of forgiving or seeking forgiveness from another person or deity.

Although the emphasis in Tibetan Buddhism is allegedly on compassion (karuna), a larger concept of retribution is often at work behind the scenes. Compassion in Buddhism is the profound desire to alleviate suffering universally, extending even to one’s perceived enemies. Tantra, paradoxically, emphasizes karmic retribution that allows the guru to “payback” perceived slights and disrespect secretly using black magic techniques or “rituals of subjugation.”

Personal Account: The Dark Side of the Teachings

My own experience underscores the stark absence of forgiveness in Tantric Tibetan Buddhism. During a tantric ritual of annihilation, I desperately begged forgiveness from the guru for any perceived wrongdoing, hoping for mercy or compassion. I honestly did not know what I was being punished for. The guru, however, demonstrated not even the slightest bit of forgiveness or mercy. This painful event highlighted for me the profound differences between the compassionate forgiveness taught by Jesus Christ and the severe, impersonal karmic logic of Tantric Tibetan Buddhism.

Forgiveness in Christianity

In Christianity, forgiveness occupies a central and explicit place. It involves both human interpersonal forgiveness and divine forgiveness through the mercy and grace of God. Christianity explicitly encourages believers to forgive one another as God has forgiven them through Christ’s sacrifice on the cross.

Forgiveness in Christianity is relational, deeply rooted in repentance, reconciliation, and restoration of relationships with God and with others. It implies a personal release from the debt of sin through God’s grace, rather than the impersonal balancing of karmic scales.

Jesus teaches explicitly on forgiveness, such as in the Lord’s Prayer (“Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”), emphasizing the interconnectedness of receiving and giving forgiveness. Forgiveness is portrayed not merely as a spiritual virtue but as a fundamental practice essential to spiritual health and salvation itself.

Western Practitioners and Misplaced Assumptions

Many Western practitioners of Tibetan Buddhism unconsciously overlay their Judeo-Christian cultural and moral values onto the tantric Buddhist teachings, often at their own detriment. They assume the presence of forgiveness and personal mercy that simply do not exist in the traditional tantric framework. This mistaken belief can lead practitioners to misunderstand or misinterpret the intentions and actions of teachers, making them vulnerable to exploitation and emotional and physical harm. Ultimately, recognizing these fundamental differences can lead to safety, and protection from mistaken spiritual paths. For more about the guru’s ability to engage in karmic retribution see here, here, and here.

[1] Ken McLeod, “Forgiveness is Not Buddhist,” Unfettered Mindhttps://unfetteredmind.org/forgiveness-is-not-buddhist/ (accessed April 9, 2025).