Tag: spiritual-abuse

Read Between the Lines: A Glimpse into the Dark Heart of Guru Devotion

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This week, a well-known lineage master in Tibetan Buddhism is live-streaming teachings to an international audience. The subject? The Fifty Verses on the Guru, a classical text often revered in Tibetan spiritual circles.

What stands out is not the spiritual inspiration one might expect, but the chilling severity of the warnings directed at anyone who dares to question or criticize the guru. In these verses, critics are threatened with death by plagues, poison, spirits, and natural disasters. They’re told they’ll be attacked by bandits, burned alive, and ultimately “cooked in hell.”

Yes, cooked in hell.

These aren’t metaphorical suggestions. They’re clear, unambiguous threats proclaimed with spiritual authority and recited with solemnity. And they’re being taught to women (a group of nuns) dedicating their lives to a religion that claims to offer liberation.

One may ask, is this liberation? Or is it spiritual coercion?

Consider how the following verses read:

Those great fools who criticize
The guru’s feet will die from plagues,
Disasters, fevers, evil spirits,
Contagions, and from poisons.

They will be killed by tyrants, snakes,
Water, fire, dakinis, bandits,
And vighna and vinayaka spirits,
And then they will go to the hells.

You must never rile the mind
Of the master. A fool who does
Will certainly be cooked in hell.

These are not compassionate teachings encouraging wisdom and discernment. These are fear-based tactics meant to silence and suppress any legitimate questioning of authority. And they’re not buried in obscure corners of the tradition; they are central, foundational texts, recited aloud in front of devoted students, streamed across the world for anyone to witness.

So what does it say about a religion when its core teachings equate dissent with spiritual doom? What kind of teacher feels justified in repeating these words to those under his care?

And more importantly: what happens to someone who dares to think critically? Remember, many of the advanced gurus have the supernatural ability (siddhi) to read the thoughts of their disciples.

In the wake of widespread abuse scandals across Tibetan Buddhist institutions, many of which have been publicly documented, the insistence on blind obedience to the guru should raise serious red flags. If you’re drawn to Tibetan Buddhism or already involved, ask yourself: Do you feel free to question? Do you feel safe? Perhaps it is time to take an honest look at this tradition.

A Testimony of Deliverance from Demonic Deception on Reddit

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I came to the realization they were actually evil (you have to understand they can pretend to be good, even despite their demonic names, and twist your mind into believing in them—and it feels very real)—but I couldn’t resist their power.”

They’d love bomb me and then in the next breath become really nasty. Eventually it got to the point I’d see Lucifer walking around my apartment, as a real man, and then take control of my body…and end up raping me.”

These words, pulled from a harrowing testimony posted on Reddit, felt like echoes of my own past, so chillingly familiar that I found myself nodding.

The author of the post, anonymous but heartbreakingly real, shares a decade-long descent into Luciferianism, New Age spirituality, kundalini experiences, possession, and finally, miraculous deliverance by Jesus Christ. Her story is raw, detailed, and unapologetically honest. And for those of us who have lived through the spiritual counterfeit, it rings true on every level.

Like her, I once believed the false light was real. In my case, it came in Tibetan robes, wrapped in Buddhist philosophy and tantric mysticism, cloaked in teachings about “enlightenment” and “emptiness.” Before my first three-year retreat in my twenties, my retreat lama (guru) love-bombed me. He saw my spiritual hunger and poured affection, flattery, and attention into me until the day I resisted his sexual advances. Then his interest in me turned to cruelty. The same happened again, years later, with my second three-year retreat root guru. It’s a familiar pattern to survivors of spiritual abuse: seduction, betrayal, and punishment.

The Reddit testimony describes a similar spiritual seduction, initially sweet and ecstatic, culminating in a brutal loss of bodily autonomy. Demonic spirits love-bombed her, appeared to her as beautiful, powerful entities and then turned violent and abusive, eventually raping her both spiritually and physically. She writes of Lucifer “walking around her apartment… and taking control of her body.” I, too, experienced possession after tantric rituals designed to merge with deities. The difference is, in Tibetan Buddhism, such possession is framed as “blessing.”

And like her, I couldn’t break free until I cried out to Jesus, not under pressure, but because I had nowhere else to turn. When I finally surrendered, I, too, felt deliverance (still ongoing) that was cleansing, and unmistakably holy. It felt like the definite breaking of chains.

This woman’s account is long, but worth reading. You can find the full testimony here. It’s a sobering reminder of how widespread and insidious these spiritual deceptions are and how they shape-shift across traditions, religions, and cultures, but always carry the same fingerprints: seduction, confusion, torment, and ultimate destruction of the soul.

Her courage in speaking out is an act of spiritual warfare, and I share this not to sensationalize her story but to affirm: you are not alone. And yes, there is a way out.

The Hidden Dangers of Samaya in Tibetan Buddhism: What Western Practitioners Need to Know

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This illustration depicts the state of “vajra hell,” the total dissolution of the mind.

When many Westerners approach Tibetan Buddhism, they do so with an open heart and a desire to deepen their spiritual practice. The exotic rituals, profound teachings, and seemingly compassionate community can be deeply appealing. However, beneath this shiny surface lies a complex web of commitments and consequences that few are prepared for, most notably, the concept of samaya (sacred bond) and its implications.

What is Samaya?

Samaya refers to the vows and commitments a student makes to their tantric guru and yidam deities. These vows are considered sacred, and maintaining them is central to the practitioner’s spiritual progress. However, the specifics of these vows and the consequences of breaking them are often vaguely communicated, especially to Western practitioners who may not be familiar with the cultural and historical contexts in which these practices developed.

The Culture of Silence and Fear

One of the most concerning aspects of samaya is the culture of silence it fosters. Criticizing or even feeling anger towards one’s guru, regardless of whether that anger is justified, is seen as a severe violation. In some teachings, it’s said that such emotions can lead to dire spiritual consequences, including rebirth in vajra hell, a particularly terrifying concept designed to enforce obedience and submission.

This culture makes it exceedingly difficult for practitioners to voice concerns or challenge questionable behavior. The fear of spiritual retribution can be paralyzing, leaving individuals trapped in harmful situations without support.

The Danger of Vague Punishments

In many Tibetan Buddhist communities, the specific repercussions for breaking samaya are deliberately left vague. This ambiguity serves to keep practitioners in a state of uncertainty and fear, unsure of what might trigger severe consequences. For those involved in intensive practices like three-year retreats, this can create an environment ripe for manipulation and abuse.

A Warning to Western Practitioners

If you’re considering entering into a tantric relationship with a Tibetan Buddhist guru, it’s crucial to fully understand the commitments you’re making. Ask questions, seek out diverse perspectives, and be wary of any teacher who discourages inquiry or transparency.

Remember, spiritual growth should not come at the cost of your autonomy, well-being, or mental health. Trust your instincts, and don’t hesitate to step away from harmful situations.

Final Thoughts

Tibetan Buddhism offers many seemingly profound teachings, but it’s essential to approach these practices with both a very discerning mind, especially if you come from a Judeo-Christian background. Understanding the hidden dangers of Tibetan Buddhism can help protect you from falling into harmful dynamics that have ensnared many unsuspecting practitioners before you.